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Impact of Addiction on Family and Finances

Consciously Form What We Do To Create Positive Financial Outcomes

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  • About Me
  • Facing Financial Uncertainty
    • Making Ends Meet
    • Managing Debt
    • Create A Plan To Communicate with Your Creditors
    • Communicate With Your Creditors
    • Plan Your Spending
  • Financial Assessment
    • Assessing the Financial Costs of Using
    • Maintain Organized Financial Records
    • Manage Cash Flow and Build Net Worth
    • What Are My Life Needs?
    • Identify My Life Needs
    • Plan Your Spending
    • Use Credit Wisely
    • Maintain Adequate Insurance Coverage
    • Manage Savings and Investments Wisely
    • Criteria for Selecting Savings and Investments
    • Types of Savings and Investments
    • Maintain Your Pre-Retirement Lifestyle During Retirement
    • Pay Necessary Taxes But No More
    • Create and Maintain A Current Estate Plan
    • Own a Business – Practice Management Assessment
  • Financial Worksheets
    • Cost of Substance Use For One Year Inventory
    • My Life Needs
    • Cash Flow Inventory
    • Net Worth Inventory
    • Sources of Income Inventory
    • Spending Tracker Inventory
    • Types of Expenses
    • How Does My Spending Compare?
    • How Much Do I Owe – Debt Inventory
    • Insurance Inventory
    • Savings and Investment Inventory
    • Location of Important Records
    • Personal and Family Information
    • Professional and Personal Advisers
  • Moving Beyond Losses
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    • Subsystems of the Non-Physical Self
    • What Was My Part?
    • Use My Creative Capacity to Find My Way Through Any Difficulty
    • At Peace or Disturbed
    • Forming How We Meet Our Life Needs
    • Choices and Consequences
    • Not satisfied – what next?
  • About Addiction

Subsystems of the Non-Physical Self

 

Components Of The Non-physical Self

A Framework For Observing How We Create What We Do

When Forming The Self To Relate To People, Places, Things (Including Money)

The components of the non-physical self are the invisible character attributes we are born with that we use to create our lives.  We have the capacity to use the Non-Physical Self to:

  • focus attention
  • connect to our creative source within to determine how to engage personal presence, power, and energy
  • activate the components of the Character Operating System, the Energy Distribution System, and the Energy Activation System
  • form how we identify, define, and fill our individual and collective life needs.  

The way we form the Non-Physical Self to create the way we fill our needs determines the quality of life outcomes we get.  

Focus of Attention

Open Awareness

Focus attention within and without

Connect to creative source within/Join with others

Ask/Listen/Determine what to do

Activate what we do in a balanced way

Character Operating System

The Character Operating System Contains The Character Traits We Activate To Form What We Do

Character Traits

Confidence (strength) – ranges from fear to courage

Belief – ranges from “don’t know (doubt) what I need” to “know and identify what I need” 

Desire – ranges from “unaware of what I need” to “aware of and define what I need”    

Will – ranges from “self-centered (ism)/you-centered” to “WE”-centered” 

Thought – ranges from “confused” to “clear and still”

Feeling – ranges from “disturbed” to “calm and still” 

Order – ranges from “automate what we do” to “form what we do with conscious awareness and intention” 

Power – ranges from “assume/transfer outside conscious awareness” to “own with conscious awareness”

Respect – ranges from “separated” to “connected (joined with agreement)”

Decision – ranges from “closed” to “open”

Action – ranges from don’t act/underact/overact to do what needs to be done

Review – ranges from “stuck” to “assess and determine whether to stop, continue or correct action”

Energy Distribution System

Identify and define the need in a situation;

Form and activate presence, power, and energy from the beginning to the end of a transaction to meet the need

Components of A Transaction 

Urge is sensed > Need identified > Solution chosen > Action taken/not taken > Consequence results > Outcome experienced 

  *Episodic need  – Stop energy flow at time a need is fulfilled

*Continuous need – Maintain energy flow to fill need on a daily or regular basis (money, food, shelter, clothing, transportation)

Energy Activation System

Use Energy Activation System to place personal presence, power, and energy in a transaction to do one’s part to fill need

Components of Energy Activation System

Agency (own right) + Autonomy (exercise right) + Authority (own final say) + Decision (choose) + Responsibility (take action) + Accountability (stop, continue or correct)

Where am I present or absent in a transaction? – Where are others present or absent in a transaction?

Intensity of expression – “dominance/submission” or “equal”

Connect In and Out With Balance

Intrapersonal: Own and do my part from the beginning to the end of a transaction or delegate with conscious awareness and agreement

Interpersonal: Allow others to do their part

Manage Conflict: Discover personal need and how it fits with collective need.   

What is my part? What is your Part?  

I do my part.  You do your part.  

Assess:  Stop, continue, correct.

Purpose in Life: Fill each need in a way that results in best outcome for all or most concerned

For another way to frame the components of the non-physical self, click on this link.

Components of the Non-Physical Self

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About Esther

Esther Maddux

Hi! I’m Esther – Resource Management Consultant.  Join me in discussing family and financial issues related to substance abuse and addiction.

 

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